I have High Speed Turbo and I gave up after 10 sec when your site still did not load...
I would highly suggest the following
* Use a theme that does not load a huge amount of images, ajax, and make constant connections to the db.
* Use only the plugins you "NEED" notice I did not say the word want..
* Make sure all images are set high quality but at about 90% instead of 100% (makes a huge difference).
* Do not make full post on the main page use the page break, your post should only be a paragraph or so long and then a page break.
* Limit your post on the main page to maybe 10 post and then have the "show more" links.
Edited: Ok went back and let them load... Interesting - Like to make a trade / barter ? I give you a free copy of
http://www.wordpresssecured.com - You give me 2 links in your footer on each site (one link for my forum and the 2nd link for ArticleProductions.com) What you think, let me know..
James